It’s been just me and this thought for a few hours now.
“Don’t try to make life a mathematics problem with yourself in the center and everything coming out equal. When you’re good, bad things can still happen. And if you’re bad, you can still be lucky.”
― Barbara Kingsolver, The Poisonwood Bible
This one quote has been the only explanation that I can find far too often. It doesn’t make it better it just is. We just are.